The holidays bring back memories

LANCASTER – Holding candles that symbolized loved ones lost and softly singing “Silent Night,” dozens of families gathered around a Christmas/Memory tree Tuesday for Hoffman Hospice’s 9th annual Light up a Life ceremony. The holiday event honors the memory of loved ones who have passed away with the reading of their names, a holiday musical choir, tree lighting and an evening of camaraderie focused on remembrance.

Nearly 200 people attended the somber ceremony, which was held on The BLVD and Date Avenue. The West Coast Baptist College Choir led the crowd in singing holiday music, before City officials, including Lancaster Mayor R. Rex Parris, Assemblyman Steve Knight, and Councilmember Sandra Johnson offered words of inspiration and encouragement to the crowd.

Johnson spoke of the pain of losing her mother and became emotional as she reflected on those moments with Mom that meant the most to her.

The choir hummed softly during the reading of names of deceased loved ones. Some embraced, while others cried quietly as their loved ones’ names were recited. After the final name was read, the 20-foot “memory tree” was lit, setting a mass of colors dancing against the soft glow of candlelight.

Sarah Cain Smith attended the Light up a Life ceremony with several family members to remember her beloved husband, Eugene.

“He was truly a good husband and I miss him being with the family,” said Smith.

Though Eugene has been gone for 15 years, Smith says she still misses him everyday, and the holidays are especially hard for her.

“These holidays bring back memories,” Smith said.

  5 comments for “The holidays bring back memories

  1. John Mlynar
    December 9, 2011 at 9:46 am

    When I worked “down below,” my company used to host these “candlelight” events at their various location. They were very well received and certainly were a comfort, especially around the holidays, to those who had lost loved ones.

  2. Scott Pelka
    December 9, 2011 at 9:15 am

    According to the A.V.Press Rex walked out half way through the ceremony. I guess he had better things to do.

  3. Matt Keltner
    December 7, 2011 at 10:26 am

    Why are you attacking an event that was put on to celebrate the memory of loved ones who’ve passed on? Your callousness continues to shock me all of the time!

  4. Ace is an A--
    December 7, 2011 at 2:30 pm

    Matt, Ace does it because he’s a queer little man with no life, except for drooling over his keyboard to be the first to post on every article posted here. He most likely has mental problems, or a substance abuse problem.

  5. Miffed American
    December 11, 2011 at 7:13 am

    I don’t get it. What is wrong with recaling those who are no longer with us? a man at the Lancaster Wreath Ceremony said it best. ” As you lay down a wreath know somebody is in there who was loved,respected and mattered.”

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